Do (not) be yourself!
See bio twitter , quote of facebook, descriptiom on ask.fm,
personal message on Blackberry Messenger, they say:
“Be Yourself”
I don’t know what kinda reason, there are a lot of people
using that word. Positively I believe that everyone who use that word has some
wondering to that word, wether they are motivated or inspired (sama aja ding)
For them, ‘be yourself’ means that we may not to be another
people. It’s not good imposing ourself to be another one. The idea of imposing
is hurt to be existed. We will feel torturing because of its.
Simply like that.
You want to know what I’ve thought?
I don’t like it really. I’m the opposition.
I don’t like if someone say to be her/himself . I surely
believe that it’s the form of apriori. I don’t know, do they think extremely
about this and I do sure.
Apriori is an action when someone try to close him/herself
from everything outside them and insist to present what he/she believe inline where and how his/her
environment existing. In sociology, you will get supposing a remote society in
Indonesia such as Badui tribes in the term of apriori. We know that Badui
people doesn’t want to open their mind to outside world joining present
development. They believe that their beliefs are the best one and claim every
outside of them are worst, not deserve to be implemented.
Is it true?
Heiii you’re too extreme, Sintia! It’s not like that!
Whatever they want to talk about my opinion, I do believe
that meaning of that word is not further than my opinion.
I know and I feel. We were born to be different, from
physically to mentally, we are different. There are one who born as a talkative
and balancing to calm one. Someone has laziness in doing indoor learning,
another don’t love outdoor activities. We are totally different and it’s absolute.
You must do everything to be the best!
I am the one who believe that to be the best people is not
only from internal factor but it’s from external factor or I mean that we’re
inspired by some others. You will not be some success people if you don’t know
how that people able to get his/her success and you make him/her as people who
deserve to be your example.
Will you insist to be yourself and do not want to join what
some other success people has done previously than you?
Someone will insist be his/her ownself and belive that success can be reached in
their own way. But you must think that motivating by someone is absolutely
needed. You will not have some motivation to be better if you don’t see them to
get their best in their way. You cannot judge that you know everything without
you don’t see what others do.
We are social creature. We cannot have life individually. We
must force our body to be someone even we don’t like it in advance but
habituation will make you better as well.
Don’t be egoism to be someone who has not known how to be
the best one.
Whatever reason you give to me until you put that word in
your social media.
I’m Opposition,
S.
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